In a world where media representation profoundly influences societal attitudes, the glaring absence of differently-abled bodies on mainstream reality TV is both disappointing and disheartening. Shows like Survivor and Married at First Sight have captured global audiences, shaping our perceptions of love, adventure, and human capability. Yet, as a woman with cerebral palsy, I rarely see people like myself represented in these narratives. This lack of visibility is not just a personal frustration; it reflects a broader societal issue that needs urgent attention and action.
When I tune into reality TV, I am reminded that these shows are not just entertainment—they are powerful platforms that can either reinforce stereotypes or challenge them. In recent years, there have been some instances where we’ve seen disability representation on Australian reality TV. These include Tim McCallum on The Voice and Paralympic swimmer Sam Bramham on Big Brother.
But it’s not nearly enough.
Unfortunately, the absence of differently-abled individuals on many reality shows sends a clear message: that our stories are not worth telling, that our experiences are not relatable, and that our bodies are not desirable. This is not only false but also damaging to the millions of differently-abled people who deserve to see themselves reflected in the media they consume.
The need for inclusivity on reality TV, especially in dating shows, cannot be overstated. Love, connection, and companionship are universal desires, not limited to able-bodied individuals. By excluding differently-abled bodies from these narratives, reality TV perpetuates the harmful myth that we are unworthy of love or incapable of forming meaningful relationships. This narrative is not only inaccurate but also deeply harmful, reinforcing societal stigmas and isolating those of us who do not fit the mould of the ‘perfect’ body.
“We need to see true and meaningful inclusion.” Tired of the underrepresentation of disabled people on TV, @jerushamather, a PhD student with cerebral palsy, has put her hand up to become Australia’s first Bachelorette with a disability. https://t.co/Jliba1XTAF
— PEDESTRIAN.TV (@pedestriandaily) May 5, 2022
My journey as a disability advocate has been driven by a deep-seated desire to change this narrative. I have dedicated my life to challenging misconceptions about differently-abled individuals, pushing for more inclusive policies, and advocating for better representation in all spheres of society, including media. My advocacy work has focused on breaking down barriers and opening doors for people with disabilities, ensuring that our voices are heard and our stories are told.
However, the work is far from over. The reality TV industry has a unique opportunity to lead the charge in changing public perceptions by embracing diversity in all its forms. Including differently-abled individuals in reality TV shows is not just a matter of representation; it is a matter of authenticity. Reality TV, at its core, is about showcasing the diverse spectrum of human experiences. To truly reflect reality, these shows must include the voices, stories, and bodies of differently-abled individuals.
This change will not happen overnight, but it is possible. It requires a concerted effort from producers, casting directors, and networks to actively seek out and include differently-abled individuals in their shows. It also requires viewers to demand more inclusive content and support shows that take the bold step of representing all members of society.
We have seen the impact of increased representation in other areas. Shows like The Bachelor and The Bachelorette have made strides in diversifying their casts, including individuals from different racial and ethnic backgrounds, as well as those with different body types. While there is still much work to be done, these efforts have shown that audiences are ready and eager for more inclusive content. The same can be true for differently-abled individuals.
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I want to see a reality TV landscape where differently-abled bodies are not the exception but the norm—where we are included not as a token or a novelty, but as integral participants in the stories that unfold. I want to see a world where a person with cerebral palsy can compete on Survivor, find love on Married at First Sight, or share their journey on any other reality TV show. This vision is not just for me, but for the millions of differently-abled individuals who deserve to see themselves reflected in the media.
As I continue my advocacy work, I remain hopeful that change is possible. I believe that with enough pressure, we can create a media landscape that truly reflects the diversity of the human experience—a landscape where all bodies, including those that are differently-abled, are visible, valued, and celebrated.
By pushing for more inclusive representation, we can begin to dismantle the harmful stereotypes that have long plagued the disability community and create a more inclusive and equitable society for all.
Follow Jerusha’s advocacy work via her LinkedIn here.